I am rather confused, and I am rather bemused.
Maybe I have been out of the so-called relationship circle for way too long, so I am not up-to-date on the Gen X (or Y, or Z, or what the fuck you wanna call it) way of relationship. I mean, I broke up 8 months ago, but I was in a relationship for more than 4 years and I had no idea what is happening outside the world I used to live in.
Maybe my dear readers will be able to help me to decipher the following code (imagine that you are living the life of Robert Langdon and you are trying to decipher the Da Vinci Code):
Please don’t treat me so nice. That will only give me pressure.
Of course, in order for you, my dear readers, to decipher, I have to give you some boundary conditions to work on. So please assume the following statements are true;
1. We are in a relationship.
2. I like her a lot.
3. She likes me a lot.
I guess that’s enough boundary conditions for you to work on. So what’s your guess (or your best guess)? Is this some GenX (or Y, or Z, or whatever shit you wanna call it) or some new Zen trend thing?
I dunno. From my generation, when a man is interested in a girl, or likes a girl, or treats the girl as the girlfriend, he will be nice to her, to protect her, to pamper her, to take care of her, and most importantly, to love her. Asking him to be abusive (that girl gotta be one hell of a weirdo) is just not funny. Asking him not to be so nice to her sounds like she feels guilty because either (1) she’s not nice to him, or (2) she doesn’t like him so much.
And that’s just me. When I like someone, I will do whatever in my power to serve, protect and save. Okay, the save part is a bit out of line, and you get the general idea. For me, I will always be there, be supportive, to take care, pamper, and do whatever I can to make her happy. If there’s a real emergency (and I do mean REAL EMERGENCY), I can drop everything down, drive like a fanatic lunatic madman to rush to her. Sorry, you can’t change the strip of a zebra, and that’s just who I am.
Feel free to rip the comment page apart to let me what’s your take on this.
Thank you.
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