Rant & Raves

Some of you might have noticed that the frequency that I put up a post is lower, much lower, than the previous months. Unfortunately, the lack of update did not translate to higher quality post.

I apologize for that.

I have been very busy for the past month also, because there is a new venture for me and it takes up a lot of my time and energy. I have to give it an undivided attention to ensure fruition of the effort, and for that, I rarely spend time to do personal things during working hour. But I still try to whip out a post or two during lunch time because I do not have internet connection at my new place, so I do not have the luxury to write, double check, and post. All the previous few posts had been done in a rush, and few readers did notice the lack of quality of those articles.

Furthermore, after working hour, I would call up friends to catch up for old time sake. During the previous relationship, I shamelessly ignored my friends and as a result, the distance, not physical but emotional, between my friends and I had been great. So now, it is time for me to do damage control and salvage whatever friendships that I had left. I admit my mistakes, but life has taken its toll on me previously and I dare not let go of friends easily anymore.

Last but not least, I am venturing into a new relationship. For the first time, this is someone who does not require me to be a romantic hack. Instead, she appreciate who I am, a realist, and we are going towards the same direction as she is very down to earth, straight forward, and honest. That’s something I appreciate too. Most importantly, we don’t try to spend every single minutes of our free time to be together. After work, when we have time, we would meet up. Or else she would join her colleagues for drinks, or go home to company her mom and dog. For me, I would have dinner or drinks with friends whenever I am not around her, or sometimes I would go back early to do some house chores, read a good book, and things like that.

So yes, the new transformed life has taken a lot of my time. But those taken time are well fulfilled and it gives me immerse satisfaction. As a result, I didn’t have hours and hours, like what I did previously, to sit down and write, double check, edit here and there, double check, and post. Nowadays its a more straight-forward approach; write, post, log-out.

For my readers, I apologize sincerely for the lack of quality in my post, but I am working on balancing my life and also spending more quality time for myself. I am planning to subscribe to broadband, and when that happens, I will have more time to write and also ensure the quality of my post.

Before that happen, I hope you can tolerate my posts.

Thank you.