Rant & Raves

There was a time when I was single and very available, and the period lasted for about 2 years. It wasn’t because I had turned homosexual or whatsoever but I wanted to enjoy life more, to have more and such. But my mom disagreed.

Mom asked my sister, “Hey, do you know what is wrong with your brother (that’s me, you smartass)?”
Sister: “Huh? What is wrong with him?”
Mom: “Well, lately only guys call him, and he doesn’t seem like he has a girlfriend.”
Sister: “Yeah so? What is wrong with that?”
Mom: “Your brother used to bring his girlfriends back, but now, it has been quite a long time… so I am worried”
Sister: “Worried about what?”
Mom: “I worried that he has turned gay.”
Sister: “Hahahahaha!”
Mom: “Can you please talk to him?”
Sister: “What? How?”
Mom: “I don’t know. You just talk to him.”

At the end, it was my brother-in-law who passed me the message because my sister found that talking about homosexuality with me is not a simple task, unless if we are talking about other people. Of course, I am not gay, not even close.

During this period of time, one of my ex was calling me. It was raining, and I was in Port Klang visiting a customer.

EX: “Hey Adrian dear, are you free now?”
ME: “Sort of. I just came out from customer’s place. What’s up?”
EX: “Oh I am at the Pudu station, and my boyfriend is having a meeting.”
ME: “Er… so?”
EX: “Well, can you give me a lift? Its raining heavily here.”
ME: “I am at Port Klang now and I have another meeting to catch. By the time I reach Pudu, it’ll be late already.”
EX: “So you mean you cannot come and pick me up lah?”
ME: “Yup, I can’t. Why not you take a taxi?”
EX: “You suck!”
ME: “Yeah, at least I suck good.”
EX: “Hahahaha”
ME: “Take a cab, and then claim your boyfriend. See ya!”
EX: “Bye!”

Well, something happened after that and somehow we just couldn’t remain friends. Let’s just say a jealous boyfriend is a dangerous animal and it would end up somewhere between very ugly and extremely ugly.

But I had my fun during that two years of singlehood.

Right now, at this stage of life, I am just contemplated to have found Maria and we are being together. Just spending one quiet evening together, doing nothing, and it felt wonderful. So yeah, I am out of singlehood.