I am not a very patient kind of person, and obviously (I think), I am not married, yet, and I do not have a kid myself yet. Somehow a lot of people kept reminding me that I always have a way with kids and the kids love and respect me. So you can imagine me wearing a purple outfit, flag in a hand and be the children-leader (erm.. Barnie? Anyone? How depressing is that?).
Althought I do not have children myself, I do have a 4 years old niece and she’s the gem of the family. Being the only young one right now in the family, we tried to spoil her and pamper her a lot (actually, I am more the disciplinary figure to her, but that’s another story) with toys, nice shirt, dress, and of course, sweets.
During the weekend when I was back home, we have our usual weekly gathering and spending a lot of time on the dinner table to talk about issues, discussed about many big news, joked about things and all of us had a good laugh. Suddenly, my niece joined into the group, her eyes glistered with curiousity and happiness, and sat down to listen to our conversation. I was wondering, “Being a 4 years old that she is, how could she be possibly understand our converstaion?”
When we were talking and laughing, she laughed with us, and clapping hands while laughing, just like my eldest sister. And then, she blurted out, “What the fuck! Hahahaha!” and we went really quiet, and all of us were bewildered. I mean, where the hell did she learn that from? She smiled at us.
I asked her, carefully, “K, where did you learn that?”
“Oh! I hear you saying that some time,” came the reply.
“Uhmm… ok, but try not to say that because it is a bad word,” I told her.
K, with her left hand on the hip and right hand pointing her small finger at me, “How come you can say that and I cannot?”
Her expression was exactly like her mom when scolding K. We couldn’t help it and burst into laughter. My eldest sister laughed so hard that went she was rocking herself in the chair, she hit her head on the wall.
K, being a smart kid and a very fast reflex system, put up a thumb and said, “Verrrryyyy gooooood!” Now, if you ask me, I would say she was really good at impersonating my eldest sister because that’s how my eldest sister treat K when she was being active and fall down (or bang the wall).
And then I beat the crap out of her.
Obviously, I lied. I talked to her slowly and carefully because I came to a realization. I told her I was sorry for using bad words and I asked her not to use that word if I am not using bad words.
Anyway, the kiddo taught me a good lesson and she actually made me a better person, understanding the fact that my action and behavior will influence a lot of people around me, and the impact I can make on other people’s life. Furthermore, kids are an imprint to the adults around them so we all need to lead by example.
Yes, I do not have a kid (yet), but the kiddo taught me and prepare me for the future to learn how to deal with kids, and how to lead by example.

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