Let’s do a very simple test. List the following according the importance (to you) and let’s see what you got.
1. Family
2. Friends
3. Relationship (meaning your boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife)
4. Career
5. Money
Well, I won’t list mine, but once you got the list yourself, look into it and make sure it is something you really want, and what you think is most important to you, because when it comes to it, you might find out that you are not who you think you are.
The other day I had a very interesting conversation with a person. I was told that I am a very stubborn person. I admit that I am stubborn (damn, even the way I say this sentence already make me sound so stubborn). I do know my problem and I am trying very hard to change the fact that I am a stubborn person.
Oh the other hand, I am a very determine person as well. Meaning that once I determined to do something, I will do it with all my effort to ensure that I will get to where I want to go.
But don’t mix up stubborn with determination because they are in a totally different planet. For me, stubborn and determination do not mix well and it can give me a lot of difficulties, and I must admit that I had my fair share of tough luck. So in order to sail through things more easily, I must not be stubborn.
So if you find that I am stubborn, please let me know and I’ll try to do something about it.
But before you tell me about my stubborn behavior, please look into the mirror and ask if you are as fucking stubborn as I am.
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