Rant & Raves

Here is a good question: Why is it that women like to keep men waiting?

I am not defending that women should not let men wait or how a man is not being a gentleman for waiting for a woman. But the question is about why women like to keep those poor dude waiting like a coconut tree.

There are some girls who will just tell their man to wait outside, but will never inform them how long its gonna take, or never tell those poor dude when they will be done. What they expect is that when they come out 5 hours later, they will see those poor bastards waiting for them faithfully and still being very sweet to them.

(In case if you suspect, yeah, I met with a girl who loved to have me waiting for her at the lobby while she attended a wedding dinner, and expected me to be at the lobby when she came out… And yeah, I was waiting last night again, but not that same girl, and I was waiting there, just waiting, without doing anything constructive, so that’s why I am writing this post)

Let me declare this clear and loud:

1. Men do not like to wait, just like women don’t like to wait. So please don’t let us wait too long.
2. It is not your right to keep anyone waiting, regardless if the waiting parties are men or women, so don’t abuse other people.
3. If you plan to stay for a long time, at least inform us so we can do something more constructive instead of wasting time waiting.
4. If you are not sure how long its gonna take, let us know too so we can do our things while waiting. But when you are done, be prepared to wait for us to pick you up.
5. Oh just in case if you got to let the poor guy wait, please ensure that there are some kind of rewards after that. At least we deserve it.
6. If you let the poor guy wait and reward him, make sure you don’t do it too many times unless you can come up with different lucrative rewards because it can get pretty tiresome after awhile.

I do not intend to hurt anyone, so guys, if your girl suddenly mad at you or something after reading this post, I am sorry. This is just my view…